Is Your Partner Cheating On You?

Whether it be through texts or emails you’ve seen that raise a red flag, being told something by someone you trust or experiencing a change in their behaviour that doesn’t quite make sense, believing a partner to be cheating on you can be incredibly upsetting and getting proof is often not easy.

On one case we dealt with, a woman instructed us to follow her soon-to-be-husband every Tuesday and Thursday. The information we were given was that he was claiming to be working late on those nights every week but when she’d called up to speak to him he wasn’t there, he was coming home smelling of perfume, constantly tired and she felt “100%” that he was “sowing his wild oats” before their wedding later that year. She was determined to leave him but wanted concrete proof of his ‘misdeeds’…  Through our Infidelity Intelligence-Gathering service, we offer an extremely discreet support service that provides you with a full, evidential portfolio of your partner’s actions by means of tracking, surveillance and undercover work where necessary. But, as we always tell our clients, be prepared that – either way – the results may not be what you were expecting:

… We followed the woman’s partner for two respective Tuesday and Thursdays in a row. We followed him leaving work and driving a few miles to an estate, photographed him parking his car at the top of a cul-de-sac and knocking at a non-de-script house tucked away in the corner. We covertly filmed him leaving an hour or so later each time. ‘Bang to rights’, you’d think?

An investigatory measure against the address we saw the client’s fiancée entering revealed that the lady occupant was a self-employed dance instructor running lessons out of her house. Further lines of enquiry soon revealed that the he was not having an affair but was actually so nervous about dancing at his upcoming wedding that he was taking private lessons to help build his confidence!

A happy ending for our client subsequently presented itself and her partner was none the wiser about her doubts relating to his pre-wedding fidelity.

We’re honest enough to admit though that the happy ending is rarely the ending that presents itself when we’re dealing with matters such as this.

Surmount Investigations are also sensitive to understand evidence of such an upsetting act getting dropped into an email inbox, for example, may make the matter even more troublesome therefore in consultation we will also make sure that it is thoroughly discussed and agreed how you wish to receive any results if your concerns are founded. This often incudes providing a free confidential, professional meeting space for you to attend with a family or friend as a position of support.

Do you have such doubts about your partner? Contact us today on 07711 863 944 to book a FREE consultation.